jealous or not

nothing will ever make them jealous, don’t even try and embarrass yourself. this is simply not happening. they’re too self-assured and confident to ever question you, they just know you would tell them, if you suddenly felt differently. and they don’t really care about others in that matter, people can flirt with you, sure, they understand that perfectly, but it doesn’t bother them. but sometimes it might bother you, since you can’t do anyhing but feel like they simply don’t care. it’s just coming off this way, like nothing matters to them in a grand scheme of things. you often question that, and if you raise that topic by discussing with them, it might hurt their feelings for real. this can lead to a greater argument, whether is your relationship dear to them at all. and you won’t have clear answer to that even after. if you decide to finaly leave, the won’t try to stop you in any way. but if you give them a chance, they will try to make it up to you.

venti, kaeya, albedo, zhongli, heizou

they don’t get like jealous, but they for sure show you some reaction, depending on their mood. usually they would just raise their eyebrow or smirk at you, knowing full well you’re not serious, but they might sometimes play along. if anything, they’re more amused by your actions. if they’re not in the mood, they can actually give you a bit of a cold shoulder and tell you to read the room, but only if it was your idea and they know that. if they see you’re not comfortable with other people bothering you, they’ll pull you out of the sticky situation. you will probably laugh at it later, also get ready to be endlessly teased, but it’s fine. they’re the nicest to deal with in that sense. since they won’t get jealous easily and they trust you enough to lead the way.

childe, aether, diluc, cyno.

no, don’t do that. teasing other people to get their attention is a very bad idea. they won’t get it, they’ll take this very seriously and would be very hurt by it, even if they try very hard not to show. it can go two ways from here: they might start to distance themselves from you or they become very clingy. like to an uncomfortable degree. they probably won’t believe you if you said you were joking or just teasing somebody to get their attention on purpose. you could just tell them? they don’t see the point, they already do so much for you, is this not enough? why do you do that? can’t you just talk? they just genuinely don’t understand that. it’s not something worth a joke for them. very bad situation for your relationship, they might and probably will start to question it in general. if it was somebody bothering you and you were visibly uncomfortable or even neutral? the other story: they won’t care in a sense that they know you’re not participating and therefore it’s not your fault in any way, so they either shush that person away or let you take the lead and deal with it yourself.

xiao, thoma, tighnari, scaramouche

the funniest to deal with. they just can’t comprehend the thought you may find someone better, when they’re in front of you. they’ll try so hard not to show it and fail miserably, it’s honestly the funniest show ever. they’ll immediately try to win your attention back, and the more they try to hide it, the more obvious it becomes. when you tell them later you were joking to get their attention, they may get offended even more, because you caught them, so there’s a bit of a wild ride. but it’s nothing too hard on you, because they trust you a lot and deep down they know you very well and maybe it’s them playing with you and letting you playful, not the other way :)

al-haitham, itto

god forbid you ever thinking that getting their attention by teasing others is a great idea. you would be done in their eyes in a second. the worst part? you won’t know you did anything wrong until they finally made a choice to split ways with you. they won’t tell you that. they won’t show you that. they’ll just make a mental note on you and quite literally stop trusting you on a spot. they might observe you for quite some time after this situation, to find more, and if it was just one mistake and you see that something changed, they might try (!) to sit down and explain to you that it’s not acceptable to them. they have very strong boundaries and they have built their world where there are their loved ones and their unloved ones. it doesn’t mean they hate everyone except their circle, not at all, but they had more than enough in their lives, they don’t need untrustworthy people to top it all. they don’t want to “spice” their relationship like that either. they fully devote themselves to this person, they want the same from them. they want very peaceful gentle relationship, where they can finally relax and fully trust in somebody, let them take control to take some weight off their shoulders.  to some it might sound boring even, so if it’s not for you - okay, you’ll just split. but don’t play them, they won’t appreciate that, you’ll lose their respect. if it’s the other person who bothers you though… well, this person won’t be there for long, they’ll make sure of that.

kazuha, ayato, gorou.

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