Identity Headcanons for the wonderful people of House Dimitrescu because I can

Alcina:

The Lady of the Castle herself. See, i headcanon Alcina as a transfem lesbian who uses she/her pronouns. I headcanon her as transfem due to the fact that the hereditary blood disease she suffers from in canon actually only affects amab people. And, to be honest, I think her sexuality speaks for itself. She hates men, it is known that all workers in the castle were women and she seems kinda fruity to me so yeah.

Bela:

Ah little baby Beli. This little one is 100% a nonbinary acearo lesbian that uses they/them pronouns. As Bel is the more mature one of the three, I headcanon that they discovered themselves pretty early on. Throughout the years they have never once had any romantic attraction or sexual attraction and at first, they thought something was wrong with them but after a talk with Donna (who i also hc as acearo) Beli learned that it was perfectly normal. They realised that they were nonbinary after their mother used “they” to refer to Bel and their siblings when talking to Mother Miranda. 

Beli knew Alcina meant all three of them when she used it but it still made them very happy, so they requested that their mother start using they/them permanently to refer to them. They realised that they were lesbian after they had a limited crush on one of the maids that worked in the castle. Bel also prefers to be called either Bel or Beli.

Cassandra:

Little Cassi. Our sweet, sadistic gremlin. Cassandra is a transmasc nonbinary aro lesbian that uses he/they pronouns. Cassandra asked Bela for help with this, knowing that his sibling had a lot of experience with their own identity. Cassandra has always been more masculine presenting, even after they were first reborn. He asked Bel to help them explain to Alcina that while Cassandra identifies as transmasculine, it doesn’t mean that he wants to be a “filthy man-thing”. 

Compared to Beli, Cassandra was more blunt when it came to their pronouns. They demanded to be referred to by the correct pronouns and most people did but those who didn’t… well… lets just say that Cassandra had them screaming before the night was over. He has had frequent sexual encounters with the maids but they haven’t had a crush or a romantic attraction for as long as he can remember. 

Cassandra is okay with the use of his full name but they do like being called Cass or Cassi. Bel even got creative and called him Andra once which they denied liking but secretly adored, something that Beli noticed so its become their affectionate nickname for their middle sibling.

Daniela:

Our little Daniela. The baby dragon of the family. Dani is a genderfluid pansexual who uses he/she pronouns. Daniela asked her siblings for help with his identity as well, with a few inputs from her mother. Daniela realised that he was genderfluid after she decided to present as masculine but the next day, she wanted to start presenting as feminine again so now she has days where he wants to present himself as a man and others where she wants to present herself as a woman. 

Dani is still unsure of her sexuality but he is going by pansexual for now to try out the label. It depends on the day but Daniela loves to be called by her full name or by Dani or Dan. Nobody but her mother calls her Ela and its only rare that it happens.